Who is your Idol? An artist? musician? writers? singer? icon? etc. Having someone you admire, is normal. But have you ask yourself, bakit nga ba? I'm writing this not because this is the truth, but because I have once, oh no, many times I have asked myself Why do I like him or her or that thing. And this is my answer.
There are lots of personalities that I liked, but of course, just like you, I have my most. Most means, who or where you are really in to, crazy about, finding yourself smiling in the middle of no where, experiencing sleepless nights because you can't stop imagining, getting excited to go in front of your laptop, just to get updated and many more insatiable things you did. I just realize that I'm spending lots of my time, and what do I get? Well I'm happy but not productive.
Okay, getting in to the topic, I just wonder...that maybe I like the person, because I wanted to be him or her. I wanted to do the things he or she'd been doing, i wanted to achieve what she has achieved, I wanted to experience the happenings, that he is experiencing right now. In that case, well I think having an Idol is being envy. But maybe not at all.
I admire her...she is so talented, she's a great singer, which I love to be, well I can sing but not good enough, she can play lots of musical instruments, which I dreamed of playing someday I just don't have the resources to learn. She can dance well, me oh not so well, but I can. She can act effectively which I can do that also, I've been wanting to perform back then. She's so bright, and she is so beautiful. (yun lang) I'm not that good looking, (yung artistahin ba?) but i cannot say that I'm ugly. (sakto lang ba). In short, she is everything that's supposed to be, I am too, but unfortunately, not. Yes, I feel a little envy, as in little, because she used to be my inspiration now. And I like her. Oh no, I mean I love her na!
I admire him...he is versatile, genius and talented comedian. He never fail to throw funny but with sense jokes. Well with that, I can say nothing about his being comedian, because I am not. He got my heart because, he is a kind person I think, can sing, can dance, can play musical instruments also, can act and make you cry or laugh, and yet, a very responsible father. Maybe I just love persons with full of sense of humor..and lots of talents, but yet so humble and continuing to enrich the gift of God.
I admire people not by their looks, yes but not only with their talents...but by their Hearts as well. It's true that those who uses their heart, are seen by people with heart also.
You can use enviousness in two ways. Be insecure forever and be a hater, or be a fan, a lover and be like her. You get nothing with being a hater, on the other hand, it feels happy when you're a fan lover. Just imagine yourself to that person, that She is the successful you. Like a parent fulfilling her dreams to her child.
We, people have differences, we are created in His very special way. The one whom you get insecure of has something you cannot do or have, and otherwise, You has something he or she doesn't have or cannot do. It just so happened that her/his faith is not the same as yours, but that doesn't mean your unlucky while she is. We have our own luck, in time. Everybody deserves a good faith, if you will just make it good. But if you weren't able to realized these things that I'm talking about, you'll end up your life feeling unhappy and unsatisfied and forever insecure to the person or things, that you are not supposed to be.
So come on! Admire people! But Be the best you can be in Your Own Special Way!
Martes, Hulyo 3, 2012
Sabado, Mayo 5, 2012
Things I wanted to do
Who would have thought I will be creating this blog, today May 05, 2012. Well maybe I'm inspired. Inspired of what? I'm not in-love with someone else...I just missed....
writing...mula kasi ngung gumraduate ako ng college, hindi nako nakapagsulat ulet. Madaming distraction, lack of time, tiredness...hindi ko nga alam kung ano bang isusulat ko ngayon para naman may mainspire ako. What's really good in doing things you like to do... is you never forget, you're not forced, no pressure at all. Gagawa ka ng blog as many as you can, as long as you can, at any time you want. Hindi mo kelangan pilitin ang sarili mo na magsulat kahit pagod kana. Hindi sasakit ang ulo mo sa kaiisip ng mgandang words of wisdom, words just come out of your mind, and then typed in down to your keyboard.
Kung sana ganun ang lahat ng bagay sa mundo, Hindi mo kelangan gawin ang mga bagay na ayaw mong gawin, nakaktamad gawin. Pero sa totoo lang puede naman...you just have to face the consequences.
Sabi nga One of God's Greatest gifts is your FREEWILL. Do anything you like to do. Sleep as long as you can, eat as many as you can, buy as many as you want, experience everything bad, good, etc. But the truth is...lahat talaga ng bagay sa mundong ito...as in LAHAT may katapat, may kapalit, may consequence.
Sleep all day long, and you'll missed the day of supposed to be spending time with your friends, family, loved-ones. Eat as many as you can,,, try mo nang maimpacho ka at sa CR ang bagsak mo. worst is, sa hospital ang bagsak mo. Wag ka magtrabaho,,,tingnan natin kung pano ka mabubuhay, at yung pamilya mo. Bilihin mo lahat ng gusto mo, tingnan natin kung may pambili kapa ng mga primary needs mo, at yung mga emergency.
LACKING is bad, but TOO MUCH is worst. in our language, "Nakakalungkot pag may kulang, pero masama rin ANG SOBRA". kaya nga naimbento ang word na BALANCE diba.
My point is .... doing things you really love to do is one of the greatess feelings you'll ever had. But the word "consideration" is invented also. You have to consider many things, that nobody will get hurt, nobody will be left over, nobody will suffer, and nothing bad will happen.
After all, doing things you love to do is much better if there is no one suffering in the end. When everything is right. Mas masarap kaya sa pakiramdam yung nagagawa mo ung gusto mong gawin , nang wala kang natatapakang tao, nang wala kang nasisirang buhay, at walang tumututol sa gusto mo dahil wala namang masasaktan.
But the consequence is, most of the things you wanted to do does not permit you to do so. Like falling in love with someone who got someone else, travelling into places, but you don't have enough budget and you have works to do, keep on spending for the things you want but you have to save for the future. Spending time with your friends and loved-ones but you have to go home because you need to rest and go to classes/work tomorrow.
Wow, with this blog...I've realized... that nothing is impossible, you can do everything, but also, everthing has it's own limitations. It's not really you who puts your own limitation.... but the happenings around that is out of your control. You wanted to step out of the line, but your body, your capabilities, your mind can't do it anymore. So what should you do?.......
writing...mula kasi ngung gumraduate ako ng college, hindi nako nakapagsulat ulet. Madaming distraction, lack of time, tiredness...hindi ko nga alam kung ano bang isusulat ko ngayon para naman may mainspire ako. What's really good in doing things you like to do... is you never forget, you're not forced, no pressure at all. Gagawa ka ng blog as many as you can, as long as you can, at any time you want. Hindi mo kelangan pilitin ang sarili mo na magsulat kahit pagod kana. Hindi sasakit ang ulo mo sa kaiisip ng mgandang words of wisdom, words just come out of your mind, and then typed in down to your keyboard.
Kung sana ganun ang lahat ng bagay sa mundo, Hindi mo kelangan gawin ang mga bagay na ayaw mong gawin, nakaktamad gawin. Pero sa totoo lang puede naman...you just have to face the consequences.
Sabi nga One of God's Greatest gifts is your FREEWILL. Do anything you like to do. Sleep as long as you can, eat as many as you can, buy as many as you want, experience everything bad, good, etc. But the truth is...lahat talaga ng bagay sa mundong ito...as in LAHAT may katapat, may kapalit, may consequence.
Sleep all day long, and you'll missed the day of supposed to be spending time with your friends, family, loved-ones. Eat as many as you can,,, try mo nang maimpacho ka at sa CR ang bagsak mo. worst is, sa hospital ang bagsak mo. Wag ka magtrabaho,,,tingnan natin kung pano ka mabubuhay, at yung pamilya mo. Bilihin mo lahat ng gusto mo, tingnan natin kung may pambili kapa ng mga primary needs mo, at yung mga emergency.
LACKING is bad, but TOO MUCH is worst. in our language, "Nakakalungkot pag may kulang, pero masama rin ANG SOBRA". kaya nga naimbento ang word na BALANCE diba.
My point is .... doing things you really love to do is one of the greatess feelings you'll ever had. But the word "consideration" is invented also. You have to consider many things, that nobody will get hurt, nobody will be left over, nobody will suffer, and nothing bad will happen.
After all, doing things you love to do is much better if there is no one suffering in the end. When everything is right. Mas masarap kaya sa pakiramdam yung nagagawa mo ung gusto mong gawin , nang wala kang natatapakang tao, nang wala kang nasisirang buhay, at walang tumututol sa gusto mo dahil wala namang masasaktan.
But the consequence is, most of the things you wanted to do does not permit you to do so. Like falling in love with someone who got someone else, travelling into places, but you don't have enough budget and you have works to do, keep on spending for the things you want but you have to save for the future. Spending time with your friends and loved-ones but you have to go home because you need to rest and go to classes/work tomorrow.
Wow, with this blog...I've realized... that nothing is impossible, you can do everything, but also, everthing has it's own limitations. It's not really you who puts your own limitation.... but the happenings around that is out of your control. You wanted to step out of the line, but your body, your capabilities, your mind can't do it anymore. So what should you do?.......
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