Why do we admire?

Who is your Idol? An artist? musician? writers? singer? icon? etc. Having someone you admire, is normal. But have you ask yourself, bakit nga ba?  I'm writing this not because this is the truth, but because I have once, oh no, many times I have asked myself Why do I like him or her or that thing. And this is my answer.

There are lots of personalities that I liked, but of course, just like you, I have my most. Most means, who or where you are really in to, crazy about, finding yourself smiling in the middle of no where, experiencing sleepless nights because you can't stop imagining, getting excited to go in front of your laptop, just to get updated and many more insatiable things you did. I just realize that I'm spending lots of my time, and what do I get? Well I'm happy but not productive.

Okay, getting in to the topic, I just wonder...that maybe I like the person, because I wanted to be him or her.  I wanted to do the things he or she'd been doing, i wanted to achieve what she has achieved, I wanted to experience the happenings, that he is experiencing right now. In that case, well I think having an Idol is being envy. But maybe not at all.

I admire her...she is so talented, she's a great singer, which I love to be, well I can sing but not good enough, she can play lots of musical instruments, which I dreamed of playing someday I just don't have the resources to learn. She can dance well, me oh not so well, but I can. She can act effectively which I can do that also, I've been wanting to perform back then. She's so bright, and she is so beautiful. (yun lang) I'm not that good looking, (yung artistahin ba?) but i cannot say that I'm ugly. (sakto lang ba). In short, she is everything that's supposed to be, I am too, but unfortunately, not. Yes, I feel a little envy, as in little, because she used to be my inspiration now. And I like her. Oh no, I mean I love her na!

I admire him...he is versatile, genius and talented comedian. He never fail to throw funny but with sense jokes. Well with that, I can say nothing about his being comedian, because I am not. He got my heart because, he is a kind person I think, can sing, can dance, can play musical instruments also, can act and make you cry or laugh, and yet, a very responsible father. Maybe I just love persons with full of sense of humor..and lots of talents, but yet so humble and continuing to enrich the gift of God.

I admire people not by their looks, yes but not only with their talents...but by their Hearts as well. It's true that those who uses their heart, are seen by people with heart also.


You can use enviousness in two ways. Be insecure forever and be a hater, or be a fan, a lover and be like her. You get nothing with being a hater, on the other hand, it feels happy when you're a fan lover. Just imagine yourself to that person, that She is the successful you. Like a parent fulfilling her dreams to her child.


We, people have differences, we are created in His very special way. The one whom you get insecure of has something you cannot do or have, and otherwise, You has something he or she doesn't have or cannot do. It just so happened that her/his faith is not the same as yours, but that doesn't mean your unlucky while she is. We have our own luck, in time. Everybody deserves a good faith, if you will just make it good. But if you weren't able to realized these things that I'm talking about, you'll end up your life feeling unhappy and unsatisfied and forever insecure to the person or things, that you are not supposed to be.

So come on! Admire people! But Be the best you can be in Your Own Special Way!